Sunday, 2 November 2014

Things You Should Know Before Introducing Sex Toys to Your Partner

It is not just the usage of a sex toys, but also introducing adult toys to your partner. It is an art in itself. In order to make sure that your sex toy becomes the means of blissful pleasure for you and your partner, the introduction of the toy should be done tastefully and gracefully. There is a huge section of people who are either unaware of the concept of sex toys or are closed to the idea of using one owing to social taboos. If your partner happens to be one such person, you might have to work just a little harder to convince them into trying these phenomenal toys.
Sex is an activity that requires equal amount of participation from both partners. Hence, prior approval is extremely essential before introducing sex toys to your partner. The first step in this direction would be to casually broach up the topic while your partner is in a receptive mode. At this point of time, it becomes your duty to clear all the misconceptions, which your partner might have about the use of such toys. You must also give them in-depth information about the toy you are intending to buy. There are chances that your partner might feel intimidated are challenged with this suggestion. Explain to them that toys are purely a means of providing additional pleasure to both of you and cannot take place of your partner.
Once the mental block in your partner's mind is eliminated, the process of introducing sex toys to your partner will become considerably simpler. Take your partners suggestions and comfort levels into consideration while choosing an adult toys. Please remember to buy a simple toy if this is going to be your first experience with a sex toy. The quality and source of the toy should also be taken into consideration in the selection process. Once the toy reaches you, read the instruction manual carefully to acquaint yourself with the functioning of the toy. You could also try using the toy on yourself first in order to be in a better position to demonstrate it to your partner.
Patience is the main key to introducing adult toys to your partner. While using a sex toy for the first time, ensure that both you and your partner are relaxed and have ample of time in hand. You will first need to make your partner comfortable and get him/her in the mood by cuddling and only then introduce the sex toy. Initially they might be a little hesitant to try it on themselves but once when they experience the level of gratification offered, they will never want to have sex the conventional way. Toys, if introduced tactfully can not only be accepted, but also adored by your partner.


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Phthalates in Sex Toys

There has been a lot of discussion about whether manufacturers of sex toys should stop using the chemical phthalates when creating sex toys women can use to generate orgasms. Some scientists claim that phthalates is toxic and can cause problems for women who use products made with the chemical. So, what is phthalates and should you really be worried about using adult toys made with the product?
What is Phthalates?
Phthalates, which you pronounce "thall-eights" is a chemical compound that manufacturers of plastics use to soften hard plastic into softer feeling materials. Manufacturers derive phthalates from Phthalic acid and the compound is commonly used in many every day products that you would find around your home. Sometimes people will call the chemical compound a plasticizer because it softens plastic and makes it jelly like or rubbery. This makes the compound popular with the sex toy manufacturers who need to create soft and lifelike adult toys.
Is it Really Dangerous?
While some scientists have worked to prove that the use of phthalates in any plastic product is dangerous, both to the environment and to the people who encounter the product, no scientist has yet provided definitive proof of any danger. The Danish Environmental Protection Agency recently completed an extensive investigation into the health of chemical substances used in the creation of adult toys. The Survey and Health Assessment of Chemical Substances in Sex Toys report concluded that there was no health risk associated with using these toys, made with phthalates, for one hour a day or less, unless you are pregnant or nursing a baby.
While pregnant women and those nursing babies need to be even more careful, as phthalates can produce the female hormone, estrogen, which can interfere with the pregnancy or milk production, even these women are not at risk if they use a sex toy for a few minutes a day. In 2006, the National Toxology Program reviewed the science and released a warning that phthalates could be harmful to infant males (who do not use sex toys). There is little scientific proof that a woman using adult toys can harm her baby son.
Why You Should NOT Be Worried
First of all, there are plenty of adult toys that do not use phthalates. You can easily check to see if yours does contain the chemical compound by contacting the manufacturer, who under the law must disclose this information to you. If you are really concerned about the possible effect of phthalates on your body, buy a sex toy that does not contain the chemical compound.
Secondly, the toxin is only released to the body when the plastic substance or jelly like substance begins to break down. If you want to be sure that your adult toy is okay to use, you need to simply check it before use for any evidence of 'wear and tear'. If the plastic appears to be broken, it is time to buy a new sex toy.
Thirdly, the evidence shows that there is no risk to your health if you use a toy containing phthalates for one hour a day or less.
Finally, if you are concerned about the possible toxins of using your adult toy, you can always use a latex condom over your sex toy. You won't feel the difference and you will prevent any risk, however slight it may be, of your sex toy causing you health problems.
Meanwhile, organizations continue to press manufacturers of women's sex toys to change the materials used in the manufacturer of the adult toys. Many are listening and you can purchase phthalates free sex toys now.



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Sex Toys For Women - Why Should Men Experience All the Excitement?

Why should men have all the fun when it comes to erotic toys? With male sex toys such as male masturbators, cock rings and toys, penis pumps, sex dolls, penis sleeves and manhood enhancement products catering specifically for male sex needs and dildos, vibrators, love eggs and bullets, nipple clamps and anal toys accounting for the sexual requirements of both sexes, what is aimed specifically at the female erogenous areas?
Rabbit Sex Toys
First introduced in 1998, rabbit sex toys are now established as one of the most popular sex toys used by females. Rabbit sex toys, also known as rabbit vibrators, vary from classic vibrators as they not only feature a shaft for internal vaginal stimulation but attached to this is a smaller vibrator, often in the shape of a rabbit that provides external stimulus to the clitoris via the tickling motion of the rabbit's ears. Rabbit vibes also often have pleasure pearls built into the shaft that rotate at various speeds during penetration causing a more formidable orgasm. Dolphin and bear clitoral stimulators are also now common in place of the rabbit feature but they are still classed as a form of rabbit sex toy.
Female Sex Pumps
Sex pumps are not only available for men. Female sex pumps aim to arouse the erogenous areas by either increasing the flow of blood to the clitoris or the breasts thus augmenting the pleasure to the labia and the nipples. This is achieved by using a sucking motion to create a vacuum in the pump chamber. Some female pumps also have the added benefit of having a vibrating motion to tickle the intimate female areas simultaneously.
Butterfly Stimulators, Clit Clips and Clitoral Stimulators
Butterfly stimulators, also known as butterfly sex toys, are discreet enough to be worn underneath clothing (for the more daring who wish to wear them whilst out) and generate variable speed massaging vibrations to the clitoris when activated. Coming either with wires or as wireless units some butterfly stimulators also come with mini internal stimulators thus providing twice the excitement. Clit clips in the guise of clitoral jewellery can be worn if you have a clitoral piercing or if you do not. They not only highlight the most intimate feminine areas but more importantly heighten sexual sensations. Clitoral Stimulators, otherwise known as clit vibrators, traditionally take the form of cock rings that are worn on the base of the penis and have a bumpy surface that arouses the clitoris during intercourse. Mini finger vibrators also fall into this category; they can be used either with a partner or for solo masturbation.
Strap Ons
Popular amongst gay and straight couples, a strap on is a dildo that is traditionally worn with a harness during intercourse. Aiming to stimulate the anal or the vaginal passage, they can also be used for solo or mutual masturbation. A relatively recent innovation to the strap on market is the strapless strap on. Balancing or a sturdy base, strapless strap ons can simultaneously act on both vaginal and anal areas.
Moreover, with a variety of female sexual enhancement products also available that aim to heighten clitoral sensitivity, heighten orgasms and increase the size and feeling of the female g-spot, female erotic toys and enhancement products are just as effective as sex toys aimed solely at the male market.


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